8 things we loved about our staycation at Pan Pacific

We enjoyed a lovely staycation at Pan Pacific last weekend, in time to catch Fireworks by the Bay.

Here are 8 things we loved about our stay.

1. Our room with a view

The Pacific Harbour Room we were in was spacious and comfortable for our family of five. It came with a great view of the Marina Bay area, and the kids loved perching atop the bar stools to gaze outside.


The king sized bed was luxurious to the touch. We also requested for an extra bed for Vera to be placed just beside us.

room with a view

The bathtub was a good size, and we bathed all the kids together here! There is also a rainshower facility if for whatever reason you don’t like the tub. I thought the bath salts were a nice touch too.

the bathroom

As a family with young kids, we obviously appreciated the presence of this Nespresso machine.

ahh nespresso

2. Catching the National Day Parade fireworks display

National Day Parade fireworks!

Imagine catching the fireworks display in our PJs. We felt like the sky was exploding in colour right before our eyes. (In Vera’s words, This is the best day EVER!)

When the NDP rehearsal began, we could watch the lively performances from the big screen. The fly past by the RSAF was around 645pm, but alas it happened so fast (and we weren’t ready for it as we were getting the kids out of the bath after their swim) so I wasn’t able to catch it on camera.

So when 8pm came, we were all on standby to catch the fireworks display. We made sure the kids were nicely propped up on the bar stools so they could see properly. (Would have been perfect if the room came with full length windows!)

Fireworks displays are scheduled to take place every Saturday as part of the National Day Parade rehearsals (from 12 July to 9 August 2014).

watching NDP from the big screen

3. In-room dining

in-room dining
Since we didn’t have time (we didn’t want to miss the fireworks display!!)) to wander around the hotel or surrounding malls for dinner (with 2 kids and a baby in tow), what else to do but call for room service.

Our dinner greeted us shortly (hmm, about 30-40 minutes?). Hello, mee goreng, satay, butter chicken with prata, and hainanese chicken rice. The satay was pretty average but the hubby and I enjoyed the mee goreng and butter chicken, which was surprisingly not spicy at all, but very strong and flavourful. The kids gobbled up their chicken rice without complaints.

4. Impeccable service

We were greeted everywhere we went by the friendly hotel staff. Our requests for an extra bed was very promptly handled and we were also treated with super delicious and sweet mangoes upon arrival. (Vera and JJ also had chocolate mysteriously handed out to them upon arrival, so I think they give the thumbs up too.)

The good service continued all the way to checkout, where I noticed a few hotel staff walking around to help guests checkout in a timely manner.

5. Sumptuous buffet spread at Edge

Breakfast at Edge restaurant

Josh woke us up early at barely 6am, so we were all glad that breakfast was served from 6am-11am. The restaurant was huge, and I don’t think we covered all the various types of cuisines (We were pretty focused on muesli, and bacon and eggs, and didn’t manage to go all the way to thosai and nasi lemak  and even Japanese).

I was busy feeding a super-active Josh with banana and other fresh fruits, and managed (just barely) to tuck into my own omelette, bacon and baked beans. Hubby enjoyed his cheese platter and smoked salmon though. And the kids were kept busy munching on breadsticks and crispy bacon.

6. The Pacific Club

Pacific Club

Credit: Pan Pacific

Access to the Pacific Club (Level 38) is available for those who book the Pacific Harbour Room, Pacific Harbour Studio and Pacific Suites. It does have a child policy however, and only those aged 12 and above are allowed entry. I wanted to check it out but unfortunately didn’t have the time to do so during our stay. The champagne breakfast, and 24-hour service does sound very very tempting. Makes me wish we had arranged for an extra room for babysitters so that we could head up for a nightcap!

7. Chilling at the pool 

We decided to head straight for the hotel’s fan-shaped pool on the 4th floor after checking in. I was slightly disappointed that there wasn’t a kiddy pool, but the kids didn’t seem to mind playing on the steps leading into the pool. Joshua, as usual, delighted in splashing about and playing with the cups we brought along.

water play

Using mummy as a lifebuoy. The depth of the water was friendly enough for Vera to wade in actually.

mum makes a good lifebuoy

Never too young to walk on water

Never too young to walk on water

 8. Proximity to everywhere

After breakfast, we decided to head out for a morning walk. We meandered through Millenia Walk to the Helix Bridge, and found these art pieces lining the brick wall leading up to the bridge.

art wall along helix bridge

It was a beautiful day to be out.

MBS and the Art Science Museum

So there you go. If you’re keen to go on a staycation, do check out Pan Pacific’s Fireworks by the Bay package. You get to enjoy the following privileges:

  • Complimentary Internet connectivity
  • Breakfast for two people at Edge
  • Daily parking
  • 30% savings for dinner at hotel-operated bars and restaurants
  • Access to outdoor swimming pool and round-the-clock fitness centre
  • Pacific Club access at Level 38 (available for bookings of Pacific Harbour Room, Pacific Harbour Studio and Pacific Suites)

Sleep? Take photo first!

We really enjoyed ourselves! And so did Josh! :)

Thank you Pan Pacific, for the memorable stay!


Pan Pacific Hotel
7 Raffles Blvd, Marina Square, 039595
Tel: 6336 8111

Learning about absolutes with Round the Moon, Blue the Sky

Is the moon always round?
Is everything round, the moon?

Are leaves always green?
Is anything green, a leaf?

This, to me, is the central theme of this enchanting play, Round the Moon, Blue the Sky.

Combining a unique blend of physical theatre, puppetry, black light magic and audience interaction, Round the Moon, Blue the Sky is an energetic and non-verbal production about Smallest Dragon who is curious about the world and the wonders of shapes and colours.

It was quite a timely play for me to watch with Javier, given that we have discovered how 3-year-olds are captivated by absolutes and fixated by having things done a certain way. Always. Like how he likes his shoes to be placed neatly, always, on the rack. If they were an inch crooked, he would start to kick up a fuss.

Since we caught the play, I’ve been asking him (in a teasing way), whether this has to be done in a certain way, always? (I think the idea of flexibility and openness is starting to sink into his mind…)

Through the three main characters, Smallest Dragon, Leaf, and Twiglet (above pic), the play also exhorts the importance of exploring the world and discovering new things. Pretty much the theme of every child’s life.

Smallest Dragon is the advocate leading the way and teaching Leaf and Twiglet to ask questions, and find the answers.

What I like about the play is that it uses very little words (and is thus suitable for the very little ones) to communicate these big messages. Although there were some parts that I felt the wordlessness (or use of non-English sounds) could have been a tad shorter. (Vera at one point asked me what language they were speaking, and I thought perhaps she had also picked up the accent of the Japanese actress.)

It’s also different from the other plays in that this one featured a multicultural cast.

fish scene using black light

It was also highly interactive. The young children were kept engaged throughout the show as they “helped” to point out where Smallest Dragon was when her friends was “searching” for her. There was also a segment where two kids were picked from the audience to go on stage and help create objects (cat, house, etc) from shapes.

There were also two scenes within that made use of black light, making pretty scenes such as the fishy one above. Together with the sound effects, this scene was a tad scary though, but thankfully the production team managed to tune the volume down for the next black light scene. (I asked Vera afterwards if she was scared, she actually said at first she was a little startled, but after that she felt fine, and she even said this scene was her favourite part!)

Look, see, explore, and discover – four words that were repeated throughout the play. I hope I remember these words too as I continue to nurture 3 inquisitive young minds in my home.

Round the Moon, Blue the Sky’s last show is at 2pm, 27 July. But be sure to catch I Theatre’s next production Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus from 18 September!

Thank you, I Theatre, for the invitation to Round the Moon!

Thank you I-Theatre for providing us with four tickets for the show! – See more at: http://www.adollopofme.com/#sthash.9d5YFEEA.dpuf
Thank you I-Theatre for providing us with four tickets for the show! – See more at: http://www.adollopofme.com/#sthash.9d5YFEEA.dpuf

What if trials are blessings in disguise

I’ve been feeling the heat lately. Things at home haven’t being going “as planned.” (Since the advent of parenthood, what goes as planned really?)

Javier’s been going through potty regression. He used to be pretty regular, but all of a sudden some months back, he decided he would start pooping in his diaper again. He’s also been in whiny mode and just extremely irritable on some days.

My helper decided to leave us (for personal reasons I can’t disclose here). Thankfully, my mother was able and willing to come back to help us for a couple of days every week, so I don’t have to go through the process of looking for a suitable helper.

It’s hard not to feel hot, harried and bothered. Some nights, I feel like just letting it all go – and having a good cry while at it.

Then I remembered that sometimes things don’t always go as planned. And many times, they don’t for good reason. The important thing is to learn and grow through it all. And to keep the faith.

I remind myself I need to stay well and strong, for the sake of the kids (and hubby too, so I don’t end up taking it out on him). I choose to take it easy on whatever area of life I can – be it a messier home and living room, or one or two less home-cooked dinners a week. I choose to keep my sanity, by selecting my battles. (And fight them one at a time.)

Staying emotionally well means that I know what to let go of.

It means that I don’t take on too much and I learn to say no.

It means keep first things first – and prioritising too.

It also means I stay connected to people I love and whom I know will support me and will keep us in prayer. (I’m ever grateful for my friends who are “on call” via whatsapp / Facebook.)

What does being emotionally well mean to you?

If you are going through a trying period, I pray for God’s peace to guard your heart, and that you’ll find strong support in the presence of family and friends.

what if trials are mercies in disguise

May this song Blessings bless and encourage you…

We pray for blessings, we pray for peace
Comfort for family, protection while we sleep
We pray for healing, for prosperity
We pray for Your mighty hand to ease our suffering
And all the while, You hear each spoken need
Yet love us way too much to give us lesser things

‘Cause what if your blessings come through rain drops
What if Your healing comes through tears
What if a thousand sleepless nights are what it takes to know You’re near
What if trials of this life are Your mercies in disguise

We pray for wisdom, Your voice to hear
We cry in anger when we cannot feel You near
We doubt your goodness, we doubt your love
As if every promise from Your word is not enough
And all the while, You hear each desperate plea
And long that we’d have faith to believe

‘Cause what if your blessings come through rain drops
What if Your healing comes through tears
What if a thousand sleepless nights are what it takes to know You’re near
What if trials of this life are Your mercies in disguise

3 awesome ways to reconnect with your spouse

3 awesome ways to reconnect

I’ve been talking about self-care lately, and one of the things on my heart is to really invest time and energy into my marriage.

What’s marriage got to do with self-care? Well, a woman’s heart is all about relationships, and the marriage relationship is a key one to nurture. It’s always easy to lose track, to be caught up with our work or family obligations, or just busy giving face-time to our gadgets and screens rather than each other.

So here are 3 of our favourite activities that I’ve found helps to set the mood for reconnection to happen. (The best part? You don’t need to spend a bomb on anything.)

1. Couple mask night

Ahem, confession time. The hubby and I enjoy putting on masks together. It’s silly I know, but also very therapeutic.

We haven’t been able to do it as regularly as we like to, and only recently got started on it again. During the half hour or so, we just lie in bed with our masks on, and talk and talk and talk.

If you’ve never tried it, you might want to give it a go. it’s a great opportunity to reconnect (maybe cos we’re just stuck with each other for an entire 30 minutes) amidst all the busyness.

And for us ladies, we also get to moisturise the skin at the same time. So win-win. ;)

2. Go on a jog-date

I’m not a running type of person but I can manage a jog-walk. The hubby is gracious enough to slow down to my humble pace and just enjoy the evening air and scenery as we jog down the park. We talk about anything and everything, mostly about his work, and also the kids. Sometimes I share my worries and sometimes about my dreams.

Something about the air and the adrenaline helps to get blood pumping into my brain and I always feel a sense of clarity after the exercise.

I never thought I’d manage (much less enjoy) talking while running but I’ve managed to surprise myself. At the end of the run, we reward ourselves with some yummy hawker favourites like prawn noodles and bbq chicken wings. Or pig out on pizza from an Italian joint nearby.

It always feels good to work out together, so I hope to keep this up regularly (that means 2-3 times a month).

3. Have a device-free night

I must admit there’s always some inertia and even sweaty palms whenever I plan for this. I worry about what if I miss out on some major news break in the world, or on some important message from my Whatsapp / Facebook chat threads. (Yes, the gadget lifestyle has made us all a little paranoid about our social worlds. This has also made me realise how much a victim of “the urgent” I have become.)

The last weekend, I tried to have a device-free night (meaning mobile phone, laptop, and ipad are all switched off or on airplane mode from 7-12 midnight), but the hubby unfortunately had to get some work done, so we had to postpone it.

I think for such a night to be counted as fruitful and restful, it should feature some fun – maybe a movie or cooking something together, some sharing or planning (thinking about the future), and some quiet reflection (reading a book or the bible, and then sharing what you learnt).

So this is still on my list, and I plan to do it at least once a month.

I guess what you guys do doesn’t matter as much as how you intentionally set aside time and space to connect with your spouse.

Now it’s your turn…What’s your favourite way to reconnect? 

Celebrating milestones with Huggies Ultra Pants


Enjoying a good kick with Huggies Ultra Pants

Since we started using Huggies® Ultra Pants (and also Huggies® Ultra diapers) in March, I haven’t had to worry too much about diapers. You know how it is when you’ve found something that works for you and your little ones? You tend to keep to it for a long long time…

Josh is extremely active now, which is a healthy sign for a 6-month-old. He loves getting a good kick on the playmat, jumping in his exersaucer, rolling about, and is now able to sit up for a minute or so before tumbling sideways.

Playing with big sister

He’s also started eating and we are experimenting with baby-led weaning, where he holds his carrot, apple or sweet potato “sticks” and attempts to chew and mash them in his mouth. (Yes, this means that mealtimes are really messy business.)

Because he gets so dirty after a meal, I usually just dress him in a light singlet and just diapers. That just means less washing for us. The L-sized Ultra Pants fit him snugly and I don’t have to worry about it slipping off. And because of the heat, I also just let him lounge around in diapers when we are at home. Trust me, when you have three little ones to look after, little time-saving tricks like these can make all the difference.

Recently he’s even started to lunge forward. It looks like he’s practising to crawl with his funny butt-shaking motions. He would try to kick himself forward to grab his favourite toy or teething ring. Basically, anything new and colourful captures his interest these days. I’ve even caught him grabbing a piece of tissue and chomping a bit of it off once.

An active baby with Huggies Ultra Pants

With such an active and playful baby, I’m glad to have found a trustworthy diaper brand. He will probably grow up with Huggies® all the way until he’s ready to wean off diapers. Happy 6 months, baby Josh!

PS. Get your free Huggies® Ultra Pants sample here!

“Bye, woman.” On wellness and self-care

I told the kids “bye, guys” one morning as they headed off to class. Vera promptly turned and said “bye, woman.”

She thought she was cheeky, and I must admit I laughed. (I only hope I remember this incident years down the road if and when the kids use this reference not so innocently.)

As I spent the last week or so reflecting on my journey and reviewing my goals and plans, I realise that I often forget about my own needs as a woman.

A woman needs love and affection. She is cheered on by words of encouragement and affirmation from the people close to her heart. She loves to be pampered, desires to dream and to realise those dreams, seeks time to rejuvenate herself, time to rest and feed her soul.

She needs to know that she is worth fighting for and protecting, that her thoughts, feelings and ideas are worthy of a listening ear. She dreams big, gives of herself to worthy causes, fights for the things and people she believes in and loves. She nurtures her clan ferociously.

As “mum”, I often neglect the other aspects of womanhood. I don’t dedicate time to care for myself. Exercise and grooming gets relegated to “when I have a minute.”

Many needs vy for my attention, and it can get pretty overwhelming on some days. (Now and then, I feel like locking myself in a quiet room and sitting alone in the stillness for five minutes. And occasionally, I actually do.)

This is where I collect myself; the million pieces of me that have been spread thin like butter on toast.

There, when the sky feels like it’s falling and when my heart is so noisy and worry-filled, I’m able to focus on the promises of God. He often reminds me that He is the one holding it up for us.

I feel lately I’ve been buzzing around without a clear purpose. It’s time to re-focus on the things that matter to me, not just as Mum, but as Woman.

When I became a mum in 2009, I launched into motherhood – mad, glorious motherhood. Now, ironically, being a mum has taught me that I cannot simply mother all day long and neglect my own needs as a woman. This quote says it well:

The quality of a person’s inner being – the body, mind and spirit – affect the quality of his/her outward expressions – the ability to maintain healthy relationships with others, produce quality work, etc. One’s inner wellness is, hence, not an option, but a necessity. Every individual, especially women who tend to sacrifice themselves for their loved ones, must unwind and pamper his/herself to achieve that inner balance and well-being. – Esther Lee

As much as my children mean to me, being a better person for them means stepping away from them, to re-fuel my tank.

Ways to re-fuel

  • Keep fit and healthy (through good food and exercise).
  • Regular me-time (coffee dates work well for me, and the occasional coffee retreat).
  • Catch up with good friends.
  • Invest in personal development, give voice to your dreams.
  • Creative pursuits and fun relaxing activities, like picking up a new hobby or catching a play (not a kiddy one)
  • Nourish your soul by feeding on God’s word daily.
  • Date your spouse. Find new ways to show your love.
  • Create mental white space or thinking space (this should involve stealing away from the noisy world of technology and social media) to reflect on the past, learn lessons, and plan for the future. (This often helps me to gain new energy and perspective. When I take a step back, I often catch a glimpse of the bigger picture.)

In a way, this blog is my way of investing in myself; an expression of my desires to write and create, and to encourage other parents who are going through similar struggles.

It is also a small step towards achieving my dream to be a writer.

Yes, it’s hard to peel away. Yes, it’s hard to find the time. But if it’s something important and close to your heart, you will choose to do it, even if it means saying “no” to other things. This is for you, and for the family too.

Parenthood isn’t an excuse for you to shelf your dreams and needs for personal fulfilment away. Instead, allow parenthood to inspire and motivate you to go beyond what you ever imagined, and to invest in those needs in a different, perhaps more creative, way.

From now on, I’m committing myself to not run on empty, and to re-fuel on love, God’s word, and good company. For the month of July, I’ll be focusing on the theme of self-care. (If you have an idea to share with me, do drop me a note!)

“Hello, woman.”

self-care quote

Do you struggle to meet your own needs and desires too?

How do you find ways to recharge and refuel?

Angry feelings and tantrum behaviour? Try playing coach.

I mentioned a couple of days after JJ turned three that he had progressed many steps from his tantrum spewing days.

Well, he recently seems to have taken a few steps back. We’ve been hearing a lot of whining and crying of late, often for little reason. Sometimes he would even wake up in a fit.

Naturally my first response was to blame myself and ask, what am I doing wrong? But after thinking it through a bit more, and asking God for wisdom and patience, I’ve been able to move from that self-defeating mode to something more productive. I’m now asking these questions:

Why is he doing what he is doing?

What need is he expressing through such negative behaviour?

How can I help him?

It was really frustrating at the start, especially since we couldn’t quite figure out what was going on, and so didn’t know how we should tackle it. Was it insecurity because we weren’t spending enough one-on-one time with him? Was it just yet another new (and challenging) phase he was going through? Honestly, we don’t have all the answers…

It took all we had to stay cool. Hubby and I had to tag-team and call for time out whenever one of us were on the brink of losing it. Thankfully, however, after being firm with him, and asking if he needed the calm down chair, he would generally try to simmer down somewhat and respond with a “I stop already” (in reference to his crying and screaming.)

There was one episode last week when he dropped his lego onto the floor, and was starting to throw a fit, exclaiming that he needed someone to pick them up for him. I went to stoop beside him, and said in as calm a voice as I could muster, “JJ, you can pick up the pieces yourself. Try it.” He then responded in a whiny voice, “I want mummy to stay with me.” So I did. And he picked up the pieces by himself, with me beside him and giving him a bit of encouragement here and there.

After he was done, I was like, “hi-five, buddy!” And he actually smiled and gave me a hi-five. (And then walked away as if nothing major had happened. Sigh…)

I pondered over what happened and realised that he has been anxious about being alone / left behind, and often expresses that he wants us to wait for him. Something must be making him feel like he’s being left behind (perhaps one reason is because he isn’t as fast and competent as his older sister is.)

According to this article Helping Children Deal with Angry Feelings, when  children are angry, they need someone to set clear and firm boundaries for them. For instance, using words to express their emotions is acceptable while lashing out and biting or throwing things at others, aren’t.

This part, I think he’s managed to learn. He’s been expressing his anger using words, albeit quite comically. When upset at someone or something, he would exclaim loudly with his eyebrows knitted together, “I don’t like anybody anymore!” or “I don’t want to play with anybody FOREVER!” (Now obviously it takes every strand of our being not to burst into laughter at such funny exclamations. But yes, respect. We need to show empathy and respect for the little guy, and that requires us not to laugh at him when he’s upset.)

Jokes aside, I’m thankful that now I know he just needs us to give him attention and support, and to stand by his side when he’s feeling angry. It makes me recall a lesson I picked up from Focus on the Family’s Parenting with Confidence facilitator training session – the importance of being a parent-coach.

A coach believes in his team members, sets high standards for them and equips them with the right skills to get there. He sets reasonable and clear rules, encourages cooperation and teamwork, sets a warm and loving atmosphere at home, and values the opinions of his children. He allows the children room to grow, and never stops believing in them, even in times of failure.

I’m choosing to play the role of a loving and firm coach to JJ for now, while praying hard that we’ll get through this together.

Are you experiencing tough times with your preschooler too? What tools or tips have worked for you?
Angry feelings quote

The best of June

I can’t believe the June holidays has come to an end. Time flies by when you’re having fun huh? Here’s a peek at what we got up to this hols.

We kicked off with a Chinese holiday programme at Ed-Quest Chinese School. Food was the theme for this holiday programme, and Vera had loads of fun exploring food and learning the language at the same time. From the photos, you can see that she had a taste test with blindfolds on, and made ice-cream with the red ball-like gadget (bottom pic). Obviously with such fun and engaging activities, Ms Vera loved attending class, and I didn’t hear a single complaint. She kept telling me she wanted to go back and attend more classes! (Now, I think that alone speaks volumes about the sessions!)

Ed-Quest chinese school

We visited the National Museum masak masak exhibition. The kids had fun “cooking”, making and decorating cardboard houses, admiring miniature toilet roll cut-out artworks, and even exploring the laws of physics with eggs and other interesting materials. And don’t forget the bouncy castles at the front lawn! (PS. Exhibition runs till 3 August.)

Play @ National Museum

We took advantage of I Love Museum’s Children’s Season, and visited the Police Heritage Centre for a quick tour. The tour turned out to be more suitable for older kids (less interactive and engaging for those below 5 or 6 years old), but the highlight was dressing up the kiddos in uniforms at the end of the 1-hour session!

We also went for the Central Fire Station’s Open House and had fun learning more about our civil defence force and exploring fire engines and testing out water hoses.

We also visited KidsStop the week that it opened (Below, top right: playing doctor), and found that it’s one giant indoor playground. The kids had fun pretending to be paleontologists digging for dino bones in a sand pit, playing with giant musical instruments, and acting as construction worker, supermarket cashier, and doctor for a day. (More pictures here.)

During the last week of the hols, I decided to take it easy, and just had some playdates out at MacRitchie Reservoir (we wanted to see the monkeys!) and at nearby playgrounds. Somehow all the playgrounds we went to were really quiet and I guess it could be because most families are still away on holiday.

We made random words with leaves and twigs, collected pine cones for painting, had fun feeding fish, admiring butterflies and building sandcastles. The weather was kind to us, and thank God (while crossing fingers and toes), no haze!

outdoor fun in Singapore!

The holiday programme and the activities were great. But I think the parts I enjoyed best was being able to spend quality time with Vera and JJ, just going about our daily mundane things like grocery shopping, stopping for a cuppa (this one is for me of course), and also getting to explore our own backyard in Singapore.

This quote describes it all…

“The wonderful thing about having kids is that we become tourists in our own country again.”

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