A busy April…

April is drawing near. And my to-do list seems to have taken on a life of its own. Don’t get me wrong, I quite love to do to-do lists (even if it’s just so that I can tick them off!)

April is when I will be entering my 33rd-36th week of pregnancy, which is just before I hit full-term!

April is when the hubby will start his new job - and dive into a new set of challenges.

April is when some of my clients will be having rather high-key product launches and events.

So…April is gonna be a pretty full month!

Here are some of the things that we need to tackle in April:

  1. Move Vera’s play and reading areas into her room (to make way for the nursery) -> work-in-progress!
  2. Do up nursery (curtains, cot, bed for confinement nanny, CD player, etc)
  3. Test steriliser, breast pump, and other electronic baby items to ensure they are in working order
  4. Set up kitchen, clear space for baby cleaning /feeding items
  5. Pack hospital bags
  6. Buy button-front PJs, and nature sounds /soothing lullaby CDs

As for me, I need to mentally / emotionally / physically prepare myself for childbirth. In all the hustle and bustle of modern mummyhood, I’ve clean forgotten to do my breathing and relaxation exercises! (And I’m still hoping for a natural birth this time!? - Yes indeed, so God help me!)

Pregnancy update (Week 31)

I’m now 31 weeks pregnant, and eagerly (anxiously?) counting down the weeks till baby J is born.

We went to the gynae on Tuesday, for my routine check-up. The first thing that showed up on the ultrasound monitor was baby J’s head, with some fuzzy-looking things sticking out all round.

Doc: Wow, your baby’s got a lot of hair!
Me: Really?! (A sly grin spreads over the father’s face)
Me: more like the father then…

Doc went about taking the routine measurements, like the pro that she is. Baby J is about 1.2kg now, which is average. Then, she tried to capture a good shot of baby J’s face.

Doc: Hmm, your baby is lying face-down. Maybe you try turning to your left.
I did, but baby J didn’t budge a millimetre.
Doc: Try turning to your right.
I did, and again, baby J refused to turn.
Doc: Your baby very shy huh?

In that 5-minute scan, we found out that our baby boy has got loads of hair, like the father, and is apparently quite shy, not unlike the father too! Hmm, I wonder if he looks more like daddy too. :)

Well, anyway, doctor said that I will have to wait patiently for a couple more weeks, before we decide if a natural delivery is possible, which depends on baby’s size - not too big, position - cannot be breech, etc. We should be able to tell by week 36/37. If natural is possible, she will book me into Thomson Medical, since she’s based there and it’ll be better for her to be nearby so she can keep a close watch. If not, then she’ll book me into Mt Alvernia, since I had my first delivery there.

Sigh, though I really want to try natural this time, I’m also battling doubts about what if it fails, what if I need emergency c-section, and so on. But I know God knows the exact details about when and how baby J will be born, and I need not fret too much. I just need to pray and trust, and let his peace replace my anxious thoughts, then I will be fine.

Celebrating our anniversary at Gattopardo

We celebrated our third year anniversary yesterday with dinner at Gattopardo Italian Grill & Pizza Bar, at The Legends, Fort Canning.

We walked up the long steps from the carpark to the colonial building that now houses a boutique hotel. We paused for a moment at the top, at the same spot where we said our vows to each other 3 years ago. For me, the pause was really to catch my breath from all that climbing, but of course, to also let that sweet moment return to mind. :)

While the façade of The Legends remains pretty much the same as what I remembered, the insides have been changed. Upon entering, you will see some friendly greeters of Gattopardo ready to usher in their next patron, an open-concept lounge in the middle of the hall, and at the far right, a discreet entrance to the lobby of the new hotel.

We were swept in gracefully into Gattopardo. The restaurant’s décor is simple and unassuming, quite Italian in that sense. The place is cosy; seating capacity is perhaps around 70-80 pax.

We found ourselves seated at a corner round table, with a view of the large wine cellar and a long bar counter, which boasted an array of seafood, regularly flown in from the Mediterranean sea and Japan. You can pick a fish from the bar and have it done whichever way you like: grilled, baked, steamed, raw…

Our head waiter was heavily Italian-accented, but very helpful and knowledgeable in terms of food recommendation. For starters, we went with his choice of cherry tomato salad with ricotta cheese, and we ordered ravioli with watercress and asparagus to share. The salad was refreshing and bursting with flavour from the cheese. My fave was the ravioli - its light watercress cream sauce went down well with the cheese in the ravioli. Due to its small serving, however, we were left in want, and looking forward to the main course, which was salt-baked seabass.

(We could either have it grilled or salt-baked, but chose the latter since we had never tried salt-baked.) The fish turned out to be quite a huge portion for just two of us, and was one of the sweetest I’ve ever tried.

We ended seriously high on fish.

We declined dessert as we were simply too full. Then, surprise surprise, our nice waiter brought us a light cheesecake on a plate with the chocolate words: ‘Happy Anniversary’. (The hubby had mentioned the occasion to them while making the reservation.) So we happily stuffed our faces with it. Well, at least it wasn’t too heavy.

On account of the thoughtful service and food quality, we decided we’ll be paying them a visit again. At our next anniversary perhaps, or even earlier.