What does it take to raise socially responsible kids in Singapore?

Do you want your child to learn how to be socially responsible?

To be more aware of social issues, be able to think of ways to achieve a better way of life, and take the appropriate action?

Enter the Design for Change (DFC) School Challenge.

Brainstorming

Organised in Singapore by social enterprise SoCh in Action (an abbreviation for social change in action), all components of the programme are designed to empower 8-14 year olds to make a positive change in society. Now in its fourth year, some 45 schools, and 1200 students have gone through the DFC programme.

Madhu Verma, Founder of SoCh, says, “The interesting thing is that we begin by asking the children what bothers them, and then get them to go out and fix it themselves. By enabling children to take charge of the issues that affect them, we are inculcating a life-long habit where children assume responsibility instead of waiting to be told what to do.”

I had a chance to speak with Madhu to find out more about the DFC Challenge. Here are snippets of our conversation…

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1. What inspired you to start this movement?

I believe that social change and connecting to society should be a way of life. There are many simple things that one can do, and it doesn’t mean you have to build houses or plant trees. Even small little action steps can be taken to bring about positive change.

I’m a mother. My son was 9 years old when I started this.  I drew inspiration from my desire to help my child be more socially conscious, and learn to give back. I found out that when a child is around 8-9 years old, it is prime time for them to understand and explore this concept of giving back.

I also felt that there was a gap. There were many programmes for youths to make a difference, but nobody was asking the child these questions: What issues bother you, and how can you make a difference?

In the Singapore education system, we tend to celebrate the smartest child. But we don’t really celebrate the one who’s the most kind, empathetic, and generous.

2. How exactly do you guide the children to contribute to society? 

We meet with the students in a series of workshops, in which we provide tools for the students to perform and do their project.

1) We inspire them by sharing stories, connecting them to society/issues, helping them identify causes they can relate to.

2) We provide them with the tools to implement their ideas. It’s based on a design-thinking process – that is employed through creative thinking and problem-solving activities.

3) We empower them through the process, and as a result they are able to have a real social impact in their community.

After these workshops, they are ready to implement their project. They submit it, and at the end of the year, there is an annual event, where these projects are showcased in Singapore. The event serves as a celebration of their work and ideas.

When I started working with children, it was an amazing journey. I saw that this platform actually presents an opportunity for them to act on something that is close to their hearts, and empowers them to go out to do it.

3. What are some of the more interesting projects you’ve come across?

There are many different social causes. Some are concerned about genetically modified food, or other environmental issues.

One particular child (from Clementi Primary) was bothered about how teachers and parents “make a monster out of PSLE.” And because they make a monster out of it, it becomes a monster for us! (Those were his exact words.)

This boy went on to craft a message: that PSLE is not a monster. And that we can have better attitudes towards it.

At the end of the day, while we can’t really measure the impact he made with that project, we saw how much this student himself actually changed.

It’s all about the attitude.

There was another project on showing respect for elderly cleaners. Often, we don’t know the names of these people who clean our tables every day. We barely acknowledge their work, and they are generally not respected in the community. Through this project, students became more aware of these cleaners and more started clearing their own plates after a meal.

So, it’s about stopping and thinking about the world around you. When we gives children an avenue to think, and not just be told by others what to do, they actually start to own the problem it and be empowered by a spirit of “I can”.

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The DFC programme crosses socio-economic and racial barriers, and is tailored for every child.

SoCh will be offering holiday programmes at the end of this year for the first time. If you’d like to be updated, please email Madhu at: contact@sochinaction.com. Do also watch out for the Be the Change Exposition 2013 that happens in November.

I’m heartened that are such programmes available to help our kids grow in an area that is easily overlooked. Yet at the same time, I’m also sorely aware that social change and responsibility begins with us parents, and our children will first and foremost learn from our own attitudes and behaviour.

Which is why I hope you’ll take a few minutes to read this inspiring post by fellow blogger Elisa, who started A Litter At A Time. Let’s a lot to learn from her experience and exemplary behaviour. ;)

Do you have a heart for a special cause? How would you rope your children in to contribute towards this cause?

Chengzhu Mandarin enrichment for kids – review and giveaway

Have you heard of Chengzhu or “成竹”? The name comes from the Chinese idiom “胸有成竹” (to have an image of bamboo in one’s mind), which illustrates the confidence that good preparation can bring when taking on new challenges. It also means growing up tall and strong like bamboo.

Chengzhu Mandarin Centre, located in Rochester Mall, is a unique and holistic Chinese cultural environment established by Julia Gabriel Education, dedicated to helping children build their Mandarin language skills through stimulating, meaningful and joyful experiences.

Vera attended a trial class there recently and she thoroughly enjoyed it.

Here’s what she liked about it:

  • there was a lot of movement incorporated into the 1.5hr class (especially when they were asked to “hide” under a table and the teacher had to call them out, as part of a dramatisation of a storybook they were exploring that day)

  • that the story-teller teacher was loud and dramatic and funny

telling a story with props

  • that she could earn chops for reading aloud the Chinese words they were learning

reading aloud and earning a stamp!

  • that she could play at the playground before and after her session.

play before you work philosophy

What I liked about it:

  • the traditional Chinese art displays that deck the walls and halls

chinese decor

  • the play-before-you-work philosophy

chengzhu indoor play area is well-lit and equipped

  • the environment – including the simple, spacious classrooms that were conducive for learning

chengzhu warming up before class

  • the teachers – most of them are native speakers from China and they spoke well, are easily understandable, and are good with children.

practising simple strokes

  • the well-stocked and conducive library

thoughtful kids library

  • the pro-active attitude towards parental involvement – when the lesson ended, the lead teacher stepped out of the classroom (before the kids were dismissed) and briefed the parents on what the words and story that were taught, and also gave suggestions on how to reinforce the lesson at home, through play.

And here’s what Javier liked about it:

  • that he could play (while waiting for the other kids to arrive and the class to start)

  • and play!

Verdict:

Two thumbs up for the class. I really like the way they covered not just the listening and understanding aspect of the language, but also the experiential (through the drama), speech, and writing. It was a very holistic learning experience packed in 1.5 hours!

It was fun, there was lots of laughter, and it was obvious to me that the children enjoyed being there and enjoyed learning the language! I think that’s the best part. ;)

~~Giveaway ~~

Chengzhu Mandarin Centre is offering 1 trial session for each of the following programmes during the month of May, which is limited to 8 readers:

Adult Accompanied Programmes
1. PlayNest (6 – 8 months)
2. PlayClub (18 months – 3 1/2 years)
3. Bilingual PlayClub (18 months – 3 1/2 years) (combines English and Mandarin)

Preschool Programmes 
1. Little Pandas (N1 to N2)
2. Language Learners (N1 to K2)
3. Cultural Arts (N1 to K2)

School Year Programmes
1. Language Skills (P1 to P3)
2. Creative Writing (P1 to P3)

To enter, just like our Facebook page (if you haven’t done so), and leave a comment here stating which class you would like to win, and the name of your child.

Hurry! Contest closes 30 April, 12 noon. The 8 winners will be picked and notified via email on the same day.

PS. There are a few classes scheduled at different timings each day, so not to worry, we can sort out preferred timings after the winners are announced.

Good luck and have fun!

***And here are the winners!***

Congrats, Angie, Carol, Cheryl, Joyce, Ooyyoan, Qiu Xian, Kathryn, and Marilyn! We’ll be in touch by email to arrange for the class. Hope your little ones enjoy it! And thanks for participating, everyone! :)

Sand play

Javier loves sand. He digs sand. He smacks sand. He tickles sand. He throws sand. And when we aren’t looking…

He eats sand.

And then he grimaces in a mixture of disgust and delight.

We spent the first day of the new year, a bright and sunny morning, at the old choo-choo train playground at Tiong Bahru. Javier was a little young to bother that the playground had this trusty brown train right smack in the middle. His eyes were only for the sand.

Which I guess is pretty normal. Experiencing different textures and exploring using the sense of touch is an important daily ritual of childhood. There he was, so mesmerised by this odd thing called sand. It seems to fit into any bucket, regardless of its shape or size. When you overturn the bucket, it falls out, in one messy heap. (Hmm, a bit like life at times.)

He looks like he could sit here forever…

“Come join me! This is fun!”

Here are some other fun tactile play activities for toddlers:

  • jelly of different shapes in a tray
  • goop (cornstarch mixed with water)
  • ice-cubes
  • cold cooked spaghetti
  • playdough
  • tickling with a feather
  • finger painting
  • balloon filled with water

Do you like tactile play with your little ones too?

And it’s a wrap!

It’s the wonderful season of gift-giving! You’re probably way more organised than me to really run out of Christmas wrapping paper. But in case you ever do, here’s what you can do.

Give the kids some paint and paper. I used a long roll of paper from IKEA, and taped it to the floor. I also threw in some other materials such as toilet roll, or other things they can use to stamp shapes with.

Let them have fun with their fingers, hands, and feet. Whatever they fancy!

After they’re done, let the paint dry.

And voila! Your very own customised gift wrapping paper!

I used the paper to wrap a box set of books that I got for Vera. Then I wrote her name using crayons in the circles. You’re probably thinking that it’s easier to run out to get your own gift wrapping paper, but I do think this makes the gift-giving more meaningful and memorable…Plus I finally get to use all the artwork that Vera and Javier have been up to!

Here’s wishing everyone a Christmas season filled with joy, fun, laughter, and new ideas! (Just five more days to go!)

Out of the box with CitiBlocs

We’ve been playing CitiBlocs – building blocks that are made out of wood and precision cut. Each piece of wood is exactly the same size and extremely evenly cut, so that they can be stacked quite easily and yet remain stable!

Vera’s been enjoying it. She can build and build for as long as 30 minutes by herself – with a few occasional drop-ins from us.

She’s been building stuff we’ve never seen before, like this thing below that looks like a cage. We asked her what it was and she replied that there were some yummy sweets inside the cage!

I asked her to try breaking the cage down by pushing down the first block and to see if it will topple the rest. It did! She was pretty pleased…maybe because now she can get to the “sweets” easily. ;)

I also guided her to build this simple tunnel. We then ran a little car through the tunnel to see if the car would be able to go straight and not hit any block. It was good fun, until her little fingers managed to topple all the blocks accidentally that is. Oops!

The hubby recently hopped on the building bandwagon. Here’s a pyramid he constructed.

Uh oh, here comes Javier the destroyer. We gave him a little soft ball and ask him to throw at the pyramid structure. He hit the blocks down on his first try! Boy…was he ever so happy.

What I like about CitiBlocs?

- it’s open-ended and your children can build whatever their hearts desire (good for budding storytellers too as they can tell a story about what they are building)

- it’s fun (especially the toppling part)

- it’s suited for all ages, so everyone in the family can play

Guess what? My friend Pamela is giving away 1 box of CitiBlocs (100 pieces, in hot or cool colours) to one blessed reader. Just do the following:

1) LIKE the My First Games’ Facebook Page
2) LIKE mamawearpapashirt’s Facebook Page
3) Leave a comment on the picture of Vera on My First Games stating whether you would like to win the hot or cool coloured CitiBlocs.

That’s it! Contest ends on noon of Christmas eve, so hurry join in the CitiBlocs giveaway now! :)

PS. My First Games also sells many different types of board games suitable for children, and they’re having a 10% Christmas Sale store wide for nett purchases above $75, so do hop over to have a look. (Free delivery for nett purchases above $100.)

====== Contest is now closed ======

The winner is comment #10: Elizabeth Khoong. Congrats Elizabeth! Please drop an email to Pam at myfirstgames@rocketmail.com with your name, address and mobile contact number, and she’ll be in touch shortly.

Thanks for joining in and have a blessed Christmas everyone! :)

The gift of play – Fun things to do with kids outdoors

You may have read my 20 easy ways to play at home.

Now it’s time for some outdoor play ideas.

1. Catch the bus to nowhere, get off on a whim and explore the area. The only catch is it must be someplace new. ;)

2. Walk in the rain with or without shoes. Jump into puddles. Laugh out loud.

3. Visit a pet shop. Get your child to name the number of different animals you can see. Keep a count of those animals.

4. Gather as many different flowers and leaves as you can when you next walk in the park. See who has the most number of variety in their bag. (When you get home, press these flowers and leaves between paper and stick it under a heavy book for a few days. Pressed flowers make simple and pretty craft items.)

5. Bring markers. Collect rocks or pebbles and draw on them. If your child is older, you can get them to write little messages on these rocks.

7. Pebble-fishing – BYO coloured rocks or pebbles and scatter them into a wade pool for the kids to pick up.

8. Collect pine cones. Bring them home and hang them up as a mobile.

9. Go to the Botanic Gardens (or any park) and do any of the following:

- climb a tree

- sky-gaze

- paint whatever catches your eye

- have a picnic

- bring along  paper and crayons and do leaf shadings (Thanks Evelyn for the idea!)

10. Hug a tree. (Inspired by this wall mural at Food for Thought.)

Since it’s the holidays, why not put on your collector’s hat this week? Take a bag and run outdoors and pick up whatever catches your fancy. Or bring along a magnifying glass to examine some creepy crawlies. The world is an amazing place, if we would just make the time to see it that way. ;)

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*This post is linked up to The Gingerbread Mum’s Fun for Free series!

Have kids, can make music

Her first ukulele performance.

(The notes may all be off, but it still sounded quite angelic to me. A mother’s bias, they call it.)

Praise Him, praise Him, all you little children.

God is love, God is love.

Praise Him, praise Him, all you little children.

God is love, God is love.

God is love indeed, and one of the most obvious reasons I know it is not just because the bible tells me so, but that he gave us this darling little girl (and of course our little boy too).

I can’t help but chuckle as I recall the first time we presented her with a ukulele. She took to it like she’d always been a ukulele player. She strummed, created her own imaginary songs, and basically just sat there without being distracted by anything else. I remember standing at the corner and marvelling at the sight.

Really, I shouldn’t even be surprised? She’s always had the song and dance bug in her. She’s constantly singing at home the songs she learnt in school, at church, or nonsensical, made-up ones. She loves dancing too, and her improv moves never fail to crack me up.

I love you, my little dancing queen.

May you never lose that wiggle and jiggle gene.

May your musical talents be nurtured and grow, that they may be used for His glory.

Look!

The curiosity of children never fails to put a smile on my lips. Well sometimes they also bring frowns especially when the curiosity brings them to places dirty or dangerous.

Javier is at a particularly curious and touchy-feely stage – everything is explored through touch and taste and grubby fingers. He loves to show off his new finds by stuffing them in your face, eagerly waiting for your eyes to light up and match his own.

The kids’ curiosity is contagious. It affects us all as a family, and nowadays we often find ourselves stooping by water ponds or under big sturdy trees just to check out the creepy-crawlies or big black ants going about their everyday busy business.

They have opened my eyes to a beautiful and different world. My world is bigger now, and I daresay it’s because of them.

Vera and Javier, I pray that your curiosity will grow with the years, and be accompanied by wisdom so that you don’t go poking your noses into places where you shouldn’t go. May you always keep your eyes open, keep asking questions, keep exploring new ideas and insights. May you always ask “why” and never accept an answer that does not satisfy.

Have a curious weekend exploring your neighbourhood, friends!

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