Playing with my ABCs

These magnetic alphabets were taken off the fridge and lined up like a railway track.

Can you make out any words?

I thought for a moment that I spotted the word ‘eBay’, but oops the ‘I’ is where the ‘B’ should be.

Or maybe abacus spelt wrongly. ABYKS.

Anyway…

Nothing happier than a toddler who’s simply just playing with her alphabets.

Hmm, if we can’t find any words then this would be a very wordless Wednesday.

Every child can draw

Have you ever heard anyone say, “I don’t know how to draw” or “I can’t draw”?

The truth is everyone CAN draw. (Just pick up the color pencil or paintbrush and you know what I mean.) No, I’m kidding, we absolutely CAN draw. And even if we start off at ground zero, with some lessons and effort (not to mention some willpower and good ol’ positive thinking), I’m sure we can make a budding artist out of everyone.

Too often, we allow ourselves to be hindered by other people’s expectations of what beauty is. And we tell ourselves (and others) that we can’t draw, so as not to set any expectations.

I remember as a primary school kid that I always thought of my own artwork as mediocre. At least until I had the privilege of coming under a rather enthusiastic form teacher. She used to bring some of my drawings to the principal’s office and even pulled me in one day to personally witness her praising my work in front of the principal! Needless to say, I thought that she was a wee bit weird.

But still, the fact that I remember such an event occurring in my lifetime means something, doesn’t it? Well, I didn’t go on to pursue art (just didn’t think it was my thing, you know) but I do find myself enjoying getting my hands dirty with my toddler nowadays.

And since I have a vested interest in learning more about art, I signed up for a workshop by Rebecca Chan, a lecturer in the psychology of art with the Visual & Performing Arts Department at NTU…And I picked up some rather useful tips that I thought would be good to share:

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There are only two areas where a child can be free and enjoy full control. One of them is play, the other is art.

So what that means is, try not to take this freedom away from your child, or curb it by imposing rules of what is ‘proper’ or ‘normal’. Instead, encourage them to just do what they want (of course, within reasonable limits. I’m not saying allow your kids to paint your whole house red.) For example, if they choose to draw a fish with three eyes, let them. Oh yes, and erm, be mentally prepared for the mess and clean-up afterwards. (I usually cheat by doing paintwork at the balcony so I can wash away everything with the hose after.)

A supportive environment is all you need to help grow your child’s interest in art.

All it takes is for us to show an interest in our child’s drawings, such as asking questions about what they are drawing, and allowing them to share their stories and interpretation. Also, we don’t have to force them to do art at any particular time if they don’t feel like it. Just follow their cue, and when they are in the mood to draw, be there to encourage them along. Really, that’s all there is to it.

Allow your child to enjoy the creative process, and refrain from judging the outcome.

For pre-primary school children, Rebecca advises parents not to worry too much about them learning proper drawing/art techniques. Just give them the tools and materials and let their creativity and imagination run loose!

Also, don’t pronounce a judgment on the end result, e.g., by saying it was a lovely drawing, or that it wasn’t. Instead, focus on the process, such as “watch how the colours change as you mix them together”, or simply ask your child open-ended questions about what he/she is drawing.

Confused? Just check out the difference between process-focused versus product-focused artwork here, and you’ll see it.

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This is one of my favourite pieces done by Vera when she was…I don’t remember all too clearly, but maybe around 2-ish. Don’t you think it looks a tad like The Very Hungry Caterpillar? Or is it just my over-active imagination? :P

Anyway, I think children’s art is really beauty at its rawest form…so let’s encourage our little kiddos to experiment, express themselves, and ‘play’ with art!

How do you encourage your child’s interest in all things artistic? Please share your ideas too, so we can all learn and grow!

Read also: A child’s development and learning. What’s art got to do with it?

The girl with the string of beads

Give a girl some colourful beads,

a string (scotch-tape one end of it),

leave her alone for a few minutes, and watch as she strings the beads one by one…

Voila!

You get a pretty necklace,

and…

a budding young model.

Erm…in PJs, but nonetheless.

Little things we do in the home can brighten up the most mundane of days.

O happy day!

Bags of love, joy and hope

I was scouting around for some cloth bags to hold the suncatchers that we bought for Vera’s birthday party and found some at Artfriend. Along with fabric markers!

At first, I thought it’d be fun to decorate the bags with Vera. Then I thought it would be nice to have her friends decorate their bags themselves. After consulting with her teachers, we decided that only the older kids should do it as some of the younger ones may find it too hard. Plus we only had about half an hour for the celebration, so we decided to play it safe.

Which meant that I had to decorate about 10 bags by myself, I mean…with Vera helping of course. I got out the fabric markers and started to draw on one bag. I got Vera to help with simple strokes, such as dotting the raindrops or sun rays. We also drew a rainbow together, with me guiding her hand. But after a while, she got tired of it, so I continued drawing myself.

It was rather therapeutic if you ask me! I felt like a child again. (Hah, looking at my drawings you would think that I’m still one.)

Here are the bags hanging out to dry.

Here are my favourites…

HOPE.

LOVE and JOY.

I must say they turned out quite nicely. I guess you can’t go too wrong with the cheery bright colours. After the ink was dry, I just had to iron the back of the bag to make the colours stick on well. Hopefully, they don’t wash out too easily.

I hope the kids like the bags! May they grow to know the love, joy, and hope that only God can bring into their lives…

Shine, ladybug, shine

Here’s an easy lazy afternoon art activity suitable for toddlers. I actually bought these sun-catchers as a gift for the kids at Vera’s birthday party at school. But I decided to let her try her hand on one last week. She picked the ladybug (among other designs of a dolphin, sunflower, and butterfly).

Vera managed to paint the larger parts of the ladybug’s body, head, and wings, with some guidance along the way. But when it came to the edges or the small circles, daddy had to help tidy them up a bit.

Here are the paints we used. The bigger tubs are actually finger paints, which have a jelly like texture. The paints in the small plastic tubs with the snappy lids are normal paint. (I bought these some time back from a toy shop at Tanglin Mall.) I think most paints would work, as long as they are not too watery.

~ The look of love is in your eyes. ~

She’s got this look of adoration on her face…As if to say: ‘Papa, you’re my hero!’

Swoon…

Here’s our finished sun-catcher, hanging out to dry! Ain’t she a beauty?

It’s a really fun and simple activity, not too messy too! We bought the sun-catchers from Artfriend at Bras Basah for about $1.50 each. Do try it out with your child!

What’s your favourite paint activity for little hands?

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