Things that made me go ooh in Greece and Turkey

This is us on our honeymoon in 2008. First stop - the Acropolis, Athens.

At the base of the Parthenon - one of the main buildings on the Acropolis. See how huge they are? I look like an insect. I think it took something like 15 years to complete this particular structure alone.

Ooh. I can still taste the sweetness of the tomatoes oozing within my mouth. The meats were good too, but the tomatoes were absolutely the best I’ve ever eaten.

Besides columns, we also saw lots of naked statues. Had to censor this one, just in case your kid is peering over your shoulder…anyway I have no idea why I even took this picture! I look sheepish standing next to that thing. I meant the statue. What were you thinking?

From Athens, we took a ferry to Santorini. An arduous 8-hour journey. But it was worth it…Santorini was a dream!

As we were there during off-peak season, we felt like we had the entire island to ourselves. We just drove around in our rented buggy and beach- and cafe-hopped all day.

Then, in the evenings, we would enjoy the sunsets that Santorini is so known for.

Next stop - Turkey. We stopped drinking coffee and drank red tea instead. They had it nice and strong and in little glasses like these. (Thanks, hubby, for demonstrating how red tea should be drank.)

This is part of the dome of Hagia Sophia - a church that was turned into a mosque after the Ottoman Turks invaded and conquered the land. Thus the interesting juxtaposition of mother Mary and Jesus with Islamic writings on the wall.

Finally, we stopped over at Qatar on our way home for 2 days. There wasn’t much to see or do there, so we went dune-bashing, which basically involves riding up and down the sand dunes in a jeep driven by a male equivalent of a mad dog high on tequila.

I threw up halfway through, which seemed to satisfy our mad-dog driver. He went slower from thereon.

PS, it was really hard to squeeze our honeymoon experience into a photo-post limited to 10 pictures, so I hope you don’t mind me sneaking in an extra one. (Forgive me, Stasha! :P )

This kingly throne was spotted in our hotel at Qatar. Apparently, rich people could get a bit of royalty treatment by sitting here and getting their shoes shined. But I’m quite sure no one uses it now, except for a bit of photo-taking!

There! Hope you enjoyed some of our most memorable moments! It’s hard to imagine we have travelled 3 years down the road from when these pictures were taken, and we now have a toddler and a baby. Hmm…I think we need a second honeymoon! :)

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100 ways to say I love you

It’s Thanksgiving Day today. And what better to say ‘Thank you’ to our spouses and loved ones than by loving them?

Here’s a list I recently came across of 100 ways to love your husband his way. We often love the way we want to be loved. However…often ‘our way’ may differ from ‘his way’. For example, a woman likes to express and receive love by communicating and sharing about our feelings. But a man may prefer to express and receive love by doing fun things together. (I guess this is a common stereotype, but it may hold some truth.)

I won’t copy and paste the entire list here. But here are 15 ways that really spoke to me.

  1. Respectfully communicate with him.
  2. Protect his dignity on a daily basis.
  3. Foster an atmosphere of laughter in your home. Look for ways to laugh together.
  4. When you go out on a date together don’t bring up problems—have fun instead.
  5. Focus on what he’s doing right, instead of focusing so often on the negatives.
  6. Give him special time with you apart from the children.
  7. Give him time to unwind after he gets home from work. Your evenings will be much more enjoyable.
  8. Be creative when you express your love, both in words and in actions.
  9. Talk with him about having specific family goals for each year to achieve together to feel closer as a marital team.
  10. Extend God’s grace to him and be forgiving when he offends you.
  11. Give him time to be alone. (This energizes him to reconnect at other times.)
  12. Tell him how proud you are of him for who he is (giving him specific reasons).
  13. Give advice in a loving way — not in a nagging or belittling way.
  14. Honor him in front of the children (differ respectfully in private when necessary).
  15. Look your best—dress to honor him and make him proud to be seen with you.

Takeaways for me:

- Respect him and protect his dignity (Part and parcel of giving your man the honor he deserves in the home and out.)

- Focus on laughter and having fun together (This should be easy, hmm, but why is it that sometimes we digress from fun to ‘get things done’?)

- Focus on his strengths and build him up (Need to do this more consciously.)

- Give him time with me, and to be alone (Now we hardly have time alone together, except at night when the kids are asleep. Which is another reason why I am thankful the kids are usually down by 8.30pm.)

- Don’t nag (Guilty.)

- Forgive (Can’t do this often enough.)

- Look my best (I struggle with this one, now that I feel like I have absolutely no time to myself. Excuses, excuses.)

Which ways of loving are most relevant to you, and which is the one you find the hardest?

Btw, there’s a ‘100 ways to love your wife‘ too. Print this out for your man yeah? ;)

Happy Thanksgiving!